I have started chatting to woman a few years younger than me, she has been single for 4 months after a 12 yr marriage and recently her father passed away. We get on great and I do feel she is falling for me, although I do easily fall for women, I am now getting cold feet because it is moving so fast and I feel that with all that has gone on in her life this year, I don't want to hurt her by saying slow it down or I don't think we should meet just yet.I can't father children according to my DR, well he said it would be extremely difficult too, so my choice of women to date is so small that I would be lucky enough to have someone intetested in me (online dating you know all about what you want and don't want in life, hence the section which I put I don't want children) So that had put me off being a dad, but I did start chatting to this girl who is really nice, and I thought one child, I could deal with, but she then told me last night that she has 2 step daughters who are very much part od her life although they don't live with her. Now I am having 2nd thoughts about her because 1 child I might be able to deal with, but 3? Hmmm not for me.I am quitr vain and like having money for me to spend on me, because there has only been me since my last relationship, although I am not expected to fork out expenditure on the children since we have yet to meet, further down the line, I will not want too. I am in no way shape or form a dad figure, I am almost selfish in that respect since I knew I would not be able to father children. I don't want all the stress to do with children in all honesty.So how do I break it to her that I don't think it is going to work out?
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