From time to time I (26M) do get attracted by other girls (during my previous relationships too). Currently 3 years into relationship. This time the feeling is much much stronger than before on the girl (26F) I just met.

My current situation: I still have feeling towards my current gf (3 years together) although it's not like before anymore. Recently I met this girl, she is lovely, cute, I felt like we are very similar, and I can't help to deeply attracted to her, although I ain't even sure whether the feeling is genuine (limerence I guess). My current gf loves me very much until the point she even admitted that she can't live without me. I really don't enjoy being overly depend and the clingy feeling. Anyway I started to have the feeling that we are not suitable for each other for quite some time already but afraid to speak out. Our mindset is quite different and tend to have own opinions over small things. Recently, I didn't even try to give my opinions to avoid unfavourable moment. I have considered to end the relationship but it's harder than it seems. Apart from those mentioned above she literally gave in all she can offer and all her first times to me and we met each others' family and relatives often, which make me felt terribly guilty to even have the thought of breaking up. Similar sequence applies to my last relationship too (the feeling is unlike before anymore & over depend by the partner > eventually felt for other girl) and we broke up in a very ugly way. One thing worth mention is that both relationship happened too fast (within 2 months after knowing each other) and we didn't really get to know each other first. Sincerely I think I am a terrible person. How good if I can undo all those intimate things I've done with my exes. Not sure whether this is the right sub but at the moment I really need a channel to express my feelings after all these years. (Sorry for my bad English).