Why a separation is the best thing that can happen to a man

I often cringe each time i see a man at my job or elsewhere who says he is in love, the confidence he has, some of them even brag to others that they got a women... and so on....98% of the time this is only a catastrophe waiting to happen....Has soon as she cheated. ( and some idiot men are even worst they accept the fact and stay with that bitch), or she dumps him all that confidence, joy of life, energy leaves with her....... you can clearly see men being destroyed by women day in and day out.For an intelligent men this is the best thing that can ever happen to him, yes it hurts, it drains you emotionally, your brain is stalled, you cannot believe what is going on, you cry, you blame yourself if i would have done this and that better, and so on. Never realizing that you could have done everything in your power and that bitch would have left anyways. This is how women think they are worthless selfish bitches, and men give them all there powers..... laughing all the way to the bank....For an intelligent men what happens next, well after he weathers the storm, he starts to look into relationships and whey men and women are not meant to live with each other. He goes out and lives on is own, and he learns to become a man. A man that can take care of himself and does not need a women to slow him down, does not need a nagging bitch that whines all the time or tries to manipulate him etc.....For older men one last separation is the road to total freedom when you realize that you have done everything possible to make things work and that selfless bitch left anyways.... you realize that you are not the problem and that women are, you life gets a whole new meaning.....My name is Yannick i am 45 years old i have not gone on a date for 3 years, i have been single for 6, i feel your pain i have been there, but now i am free..............